Akamaro k'Ingabirano y'Ingabire

Sep 06, 2018

Sima ubutumwa


Abantu barakunda gutanga ingabirano, ariko ikintu gihambaye kuruta ibindi vyose mu gutanga ingabirano ni ugupakira neza cane ku buryo bisa n’ibikwegera cane kandi bikaba bitanga inyishu ziryoshe zivuye ku wuyironse.


Mu vy’ukuri, ico ni co gikorwa co gutanga impano n’ukunyurwa. Insobanuro ibereye ni uko uburanga bwo hanze n’ukugaragara kw’ipaki vyerekana agaciro k’ingabirano, ni co gituma umuntu akora uko ashoboye kwose kugira ngo ashire neza igicuruzwa.


Ntugahe ikawa ata n'umwegupfunyikaku ncuti zawe nk’ingabirano. Ivyo bituma bidakwiye cane. Fata umwanya n’inguvu kugira ngo utegure akazu keza k’ingabirano y’ikawa maze ubwire uwundi muhari ko iyi ari ingabirano y’iriba - Ingabirano yateguwe. Uzosanga ivyo ukora vyose ari vyiza kandi uzokemerwa n’abagenzi bawe.

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Muakazu k'ingabire y'ikawani ukuntu ikawa iryoshe. Uretse gucapura ikimenyetso kiri ku gasandugu, urashobora kandi guhingura ahantu hadasanzwe nk’igipapuro c’imbere kugira ngo abantu bashobore kwandika indamukanyo, n’ibindi kugira ngo bongere uburyo bwabo bwite. Ivyo bishobora gukora neza ku misi mikuru y’ibihe canke mu bihe bidasanzwe. Bimwe muri ivyo bifungurwa vy’ikawa birafise umwanya mwinshi ku bifungurwa, ibikoresho vyo gutegura ikawa canke ibindi bikoresho vyo gutegura ikawa n’ibindi kugira ngo bihure n’ibirungo vyiza vy’ikawa uhisemwo ku baronka ingabirano. Biragaragara ko ubuhinga bwihariye bwo guhingura ibintu be n’ivyo gupfunyika ikawa bikwegera abantu vyatumye ikawa irushiriza kugurishwa n’ibice birenga 80%, rero nugire utwigoro twose two gutuma iyo ngabirano irushiriza gukwegera abantu kandi ikaba ipfutse neza.


Ahubwo, ayo mashirahamwe n’ibimenyetso birakomeye; bararungika ingabirano ku muryango w’uwuronka. Iryo sandugu ryagenewe kwongereza agaciro k’ikawa yatowe, ariko ata kuraba ubwoko, ikawa nziza cane ni ikawa y’agaciro, kandi agaciro k’ico kimenyetso gakeneye kwerekanwa biciye ku gipfukisho c’ingabirano kidasanzwe.


Ico gisandugu c’ingabirano gishobora gukizwa n’umuntu agikira nk’icibutso canke kugira ngo yibuke. Ivyo gupfunyika ingabirano y’ubuhinga bwo kurema bizobwira abantu ivyiza vyinshi kandi bikaba bituma abantu bibuka neza. Muri iki gihe, hariho imiterere itandukanye, amabara n’imiterere y’amasandugu meza cane, kugira ngo ushobore guhitamwo uburyo ukunda nk’ugupfunyika kw’ingabire z’impano z’ishirahamwe ryawe, ivyo bikaba bifasha cane mu guteza imbere ibintu.

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